I used to work on a hop farm during the early summer holidays, where verticillium wilt was rampant in some gardens.
The way to check (you probably know this), is to do as you have done, just notice the plant suffering, then gently split the stem with a thumbnail near the base, and see if there are any brown fibres going up and down under the skin. If so, this may be a pointer, but of course, on a tom, you really don't want to encourage more bacteria, so keep it washed and clean after the poke around!