I need a big hug.....

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mrs bouquet

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I need a big hug.....
« on: February 12, 2019, 15:23 »
2 bereavements in one weekend - its too much.    Daughter-in-laws, brother age 49, leaves a 41 year old widow, a son he adopted when young and a 10 month old baby.   He and his wife got married two weeks ago in the hospice.
My Darling little dog 'Grumpy'    She doesn't belong to me, but comes to stay with us very often.  She was always known as OH's doggie, because she lived where OH was Estate Manager.    She went everywhere with him.   She was diagnosed with Cancer about 8 months ago.   But very good until last week.
These deaths both relate very much to my Darling OH, and drags up memories that my survival instincts have pushed to the back.
And, how can I tell people I am saying prayers for them.   Mrs Bouquet
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Re: I need a big hug.....
« Reply #1 on: February 12, 2019, 15:28 »
Big ------------------------------Hug

It's hard to keep on picking yourself up ... thinking of you.  Another hug..
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Re: I need a big hug.....
« Reply #2 on: February 12, 2019, 15:56 »
Just for you!
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Re: I need a big hug.....
« Reply #3 on: February 12, 2019, 16:12 »
Mrs B, will pm you.
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Re: I need a big hug.....
« Reply #4 on: February 12, 2019, 16:51 »
Oh Mrs B, my sympathies go out to you, what a difficult weekend for you & bringing back memories of your OH makes it all the more sad. Well done for recognising those memories that you have buried deep down, thats one step to feeling a little bit better hugs for you
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Re: I need a big hug.....
« Reply #5 on: February 12, 2019, 17:09 »
what can one say at a time like this I'm sure we all feel for all the families concerned please accept our sincere condolences from my wife and me

its so sad to read about these things  :(

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Re: I need a big hug.....
« Reply #6 on: February 12, 2019, 17:17 »
Thinking of you Mrs B.  It's awful to read such sad news

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Re: I need a big hug.....
« Reply #7 on: February 12, 2019, 23:11 »
Big hugs from me too Mrs B.

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Re: I need a big hug.....
« Reply #8 on: February 13, 2019, 17:53 »
My sincerest condolences too.  It's very hard when a sequence of events happen.  Our dog died two weeks after my father and that really tipped me over the edge (22 years ago now).  I know how I felt then so I can sympathise with how you are feeling now.  With much love and thoughts.

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« Reply #9 on: February 13, 2019, 21:26 »
Massive hugs to you Mrs B  :(

Look after yourself and if you don't feel able to say that you're praying for people at the moment, that's absolutely OK.  Don't feel guilty about it - you could perhaps always say you're thinking of people at the moment instead. People won't notice the difference and if it helps you through things then that's the most important thing.
I try to take one day at a time, but sometimes several days all attack me at once...

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Re: I need a big hug.....
« Reply #10 on: February 14, 2019, 12:02 »
Thoughts and prayers for you and your family as you navigate the days ahead.


 

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