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I am so sad!!
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LILLILEAF
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Location: anglesey north wales
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Re: I am so sad!!
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Reply #15 on:
February 17, 2023, 15:47 »
I feel your loss deeply, you will grieve, cry, scream its all part of loss,they will be with you forever in your memories.
I lost my dad and mom within 18 months,it takes time to adjust.
thinking of you at this time.Lillileaf
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snowdrops
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Location: Burbage,Leics
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February 17, 2023, 17:54 »
Oh Jaydig, I’m so sorry, my deepest condolences to you & your family. I would imagine you are suffering from shock as well as grief. Just take each moment of the day at a time & most of all don’t expect anything of yourself, it will be what it will be. Take comfort & solace in your family & friends whom I am sure will want to wrap you up & support you. Big hugs
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greenjay
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Location: monmouthshire
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February 17, 2023, 21:27 »
So sorry for your loss. I've not lost a partner so can't imagine what you are going through.
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jaydig
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Location: Worcestershire
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Re: I am so sad!!
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February 18, 2023, 16:00 »
Thank you all so much for your messages of support. I'm sorry I haven't replied before now, but it's been difficult to concentrate on anything without howling in the wind.
At the moment I simply get up each day and try my best to get to the end of it so that I can go to bed, hopefully sleep a little and escape the pain.
I know I'm not on my own in this and I'm sure that one day it will be easier, but at the moment every day is a day of missing Jim so much that I can hardly bear it.
Thank you all again, it does help to be able to tell someone how I really feel without feeling that I must be strong for my sons.
God bless all.
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mumofstig
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February 18, 2023, 17:11 »
I'm glad we can help in some small way, anytime you need to offload we are here. You can even shout at us if it helps.....
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Aunt Sally
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Location: Sunny Kent
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February 18, 2023, 23:19 »
I’m glad our friendship on this forum can help to give you some comfort. I expect your sons are being strong for you too. As the hurt eases you may find it comforting to look through old photos and sort through family treasures and knick-knacks with your boys. The love will continue and can never be lost !
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John
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Location: Clogwyn Melyn, Gwynedd
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February 19, 2023, 18:58 »
I'm so sorry you've lost your husband. I can only imagine how wretched you are feeling now. We're here for you. As others have said, you never forget but the rawness of the pain does ease in time.
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February 19, 2023, 20:05 »
Many condolences,I lost my mum in Novembet I'm still grieving,I have the support of my fellow bell ringers and my many neighbours ,I take solace from Psalm 23 The lords my Sheperd once again condolences jezza
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