Building up that amount of topsoil using manure is impossible as manure is purely organic and has no minerals (ie it does not contain stone) so it will all eventually just blow away. Soil is not purely organic material so if you need topsoil quickly then you'll have to buy it in, in one form or another.
You can often get it free on Freecycle and Gumtree and Ebay but you'll usually have to arrange pick up.
I don't mind digging out all the stones a row at a time over the summer if that's what I've got to do, I'd prefer to do the hard work this year if I'm going to get the benefits in future years. I think I might look at investing some sturdy bags just in case I do find some topsoil on freecycle, I just can't imagine my MIL being cool about me loading it into her posh 4*4
Maybe if I remove the stones as I dig the weeds out it won't cause that much of a problem because my plot runs downhill...or would that make it worse? I'm planning on putting a water butt at the very bottom, along with my compost and manure and because the soil seems worse there, that's where I'm putting my raised beds too.
Have an ask around go and look at his plot and other member’s plots to see what others have done or if they even share the same stone problem. Local knowledge is a wonderful thing.
LOL I've looked into the history of the allotments and have found out that there used to be a bell pit on the land. The soil is high in clay and last year they made 5 new plots at the bottom of the hill where I am. The plot holders who have been there for years are all at the top of the hill and their soil level compared to mine is huge!!! I have spoken about stones to a couple of others at the top of the hill and they said to remove them but maybe they meant the little ones. Every one of them tell me to keep digging in the muck.
If you can't arrange the topsoil this year do dig out all of the weeds first but don't waste your time digging in manure if it will stay on the plot all year. Worms will do the work for you and give you great soil structure. Just water the manure surface once a week and break up any big lumps on the surface with a fork or with your boots and keep it weed free.
If you can, keep adding manure to the surface once a month as the volume of the manure shrinks massively as it taken in by the worms. Finally give it a good dig in the autumn when the weather gets cold, dress again with manure and leave for the winter.
Please remember that manure really is about soil structure it contains some of most of the nutrients needed for cultivation, but if your soil is so very thin then it will serve you well to do a couple of soil tests and find out what else is missing and try and remedy this at a the same time.
Oh I'm so glad that you are all telling me to spread it manure over the surface. I guess that next weeks tasks (OMG the next couple of months really) involve me forking through the weeds, digging out any big stones to at least a spades depth then a weekly covering of manure, ready for the autumn. Thanks for the advice