JayG, over the years I've realised that true friends love you for what you really are, warts and all and you should never apologise for that. If they can't take it then chuck em. I am so lucky to have several who have stuck with me and I have been the same with them.
Next week two dear pals who I worked with (sorry, not grammatically correct as it should be "with whom I worked" - ha) are coming round to see me. One of them has lymphoma (blasted cancer - ditched my T-shirt many years ago) but my broad shoulders are always there for her and anyone else who needs a big hug. GG does mega big hugs so be very afraid if one comes your way!
I will always be here if anyone needs a helping wing. Loves you all lots!