It does amaze me why people think they can spend an hour a week at their plot and expect it to be beautiful and productive. I've got two kids and a full time job and it's often our family time together that we spend at the plot. The result is the kids have friends there and actually often disappear off to play leaving me in peace to crack on. Maybe I'm just lucky with my kids and that they've been doing this since one of them was really quite small.