I am passionate about my plot, but I can't get there every weekend, much as I would like to. I have family who live away and other demands on my time. It doesn't make my plot less important to me.
I commute to my full time job so during the winter it is dark by the time I get home. Now that the nights are getting lighter I will to be able to get there after work.
I live a way from the plot, so I have to keep a set of allotment clothes in the shed, otherwise I lose an extra half hour going home to change. I was once asked if I had been to a wedding as I crept onto my plot in my working clothes!
Though we have had the new plot for a while we did very little until we had a shed erected (there are no toilets on the plot so I need my shed - if you know what I mean, being a lady) and so I couldn't stay long before I had to leave for a comfort visit. At the moment we are leaving the fruit trees and bushes as they are and just tending the tiny bit of clear earth at the bottom whilst we see what we actually have. This means we are not actually doing much this year.
If you live near your plot and do not work then I am sure you might look on someone who does not tend her plot every week as an absentee plot-holder. I am very concerned that a plot-holder/committee member who can get to the plot every day might have different 'standards' than I do. I try to keep the weeds under control.
I don't have a garden - I live on the second floor, and every available surface is used for raising plants of some sort - we have a fair few cacti, but also all my seedlings on windowsills. My plot is my 'city lungs'; my garden, my own bit of the country, and I will fight with my back problems to care for it. I love my plot, I live for the days I can get there, with my fingers in the soil and surrounded by birds, and frogs and even worms. I love my job, and the only good thing about retirement will be the time I will spend on my plot.
I suspect that for some people I do not look as if i am tending it though, and for some busybodies, looks are everything. For the Judgemental in nature, I am a bad allotment holder.
Caddi