Well I'm pleased to know it's not just me
However I managed to get it right with the next batch and it set beautifully - here is what I did. No guarantee it will work every time but might be worth a go.
I made sure I only had 1kg of prepared cherries (as the Tate & Lyle powder pectin gives recipes on the packet for this amount of fruit I am assuming the amount of powder will only work with 1kg and last time I had 1.3kg)
I halved a lot of the cherries and then simmered the fruit till soft using a small amount of water and juice of 2 large lemons.
I then used my stick blender to whizz some of the cherries into pulp to balance out the consistency and to provide some jammier bits to the intact cherries.
Mixed up the powder pectin in with the sugar - I used 900 grams normal granulated sugar, and added this gradually to the simmering cherry mix making sure it was thoroughly mixed and dissolved.
Then as normal bring to a rolling boil scraping sides of pan down with a spatula all the time. It only took a 10 minute boil to get a lovely set and colour.
I found in the past if you don't get a set and you keep boiling your lovely cherry jam turns chocolate brown and tar like so whilst I don't like adding pectin normally it is essential with cherries (unless you add another high pectin fruit - and then it's not cherry jam is it).
I'll try to add a photo at some stage but I always forget how to do it on this forum
Anyway - 1kg fruit produced 6 medium size jars which I was really pleased with. I'll try this formula again with another batch and see how it works out but I imagine different types of cherry will require some tweaking of the recipe. Might try it with redcurrants next time as they shouldn't alter the flavour too much.