Allotment Gardening Advice Help Chat
Chatting => Chatting on the Plot => Topic started by: Goosegirl on June 06, 2019, 13:25
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No it's not got any recent subsidence but OH and I have decided to move to a bungalow nearer Lancaster because we just can't manage to maintain the cottage that has a rather large garden and an acre of field as we would like. Both of us have health issues and we don't make a good one between us! :nowink: Needs must but we have an army of dear friends who have already started to de-clutter our home. I won't be sad to leave because it's taken more than it's given but, having said that, we will have a lot of memories to take with us. Anyone else doing the same?
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I ,sure you will leave your beautiful cottage with many treasured memories. It is always a hard and long decision to make, but you have made it at the right time. Lots of people leave it too long and then find they cannot cope, and the idea of moving is just too difficult.
You will both have time now to find the property that is right for you both, and more convenient in everyway, ie; Transport, shops, amenities etc, and of course the delight of building a new "smaller" garden. Well done
and my best wishes to you both, as long as you remember where we are. :) Mrs Bouquet
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Oh & youve just gone electric! Lol. I think it is a good plan for you as you say if you dont make a good one between you & you cant keep up with the maintenance youre doing the right thing.
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I reckon the right time to move is a few months before you think you need to, Goosey.
For one, the pressure of worrying whether you're making the right decision is off, and you're already planning ahead, so well done you and Squire Gander!
I'll arrange for the welcoming party - about three-hundred of us all I bet, so maybe another loaf and a few bickies may do the trick!
Tinctures will definitely be on an 'ad hock' basis, i.e. bring your own German wine...;0)
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Also I hope you will be digging up some of your lovely spring flowers. Don't leave them all behind.
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Im not aware of your situation, but it sounds like you have made the correct decision.
one tip I will say though is if there are any shrubs or stuff you want to take from your garden, remember to exclude them from sale in the handover sheet (or whatever its called). you are allowed to take them as long as you stipulate beforehand.
when we bought our house with a large established garden, the previous owners turned up after we moved in asking to dig up stuff that they didn't intend to leave :ohmy:.....they were shown the gate, but noteworthy for future moves.
good luck in your new abode, im sure you will be very happy. :)
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Id start to take lots of cuttings 😉
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When we moved a couple of hundred yards away from the old 'Turrets', Mrs Growster used up the last of her amazing energy in giving the old place a good Hoovering.
The following day, when all the packing cases were being cleared out here, we couldn't find the old machine anywhere!
Two-hundred yard dash and yup, there it was, bereft in our old front room, with the new owners (lovely people, Scottish and true to their word on a deal sealed by a handshake), slightly bemused!
Red face? Naaaah; lots of happiness and also some from their small boy, as we'd left him a big pile of Lego...
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I'm starting to compile a list of things we've done here and the approximate dates. Basically over the years it's been renovated from top to bottom but is looking a bit tired now, just like me! ::) I did think about things we want to take with us and will add them to the list, but there's only a fairly new shed, our chicken ark, two statures, some stone pots and some of my lovely Hellebores. If we manage to get this bungalow, believe it or not it has a cottage garden on two sides at the back, lots of shelter from the winds which will be new for me as will what looks like a slightly acid soil. Fingers, legs, toes and eyes crossed we get it! :)
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Good luck GG. I sometimes wish I had the courage to leave our home of 44 years.
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Home is where you are and a change of house is just that. We still have our 1st house, but it is not our home and the tenant has painted and recarpeted the lounge. Our home is in Lincs.
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You'll be just fine, Goosey!
What are 'senior' years for if they can't be used to understand that life can become even more daunting, and that you need to draw on your experiences and use the expertise you've gained for so long!
A move like this is a great acceptable challenge! Just enjoy what lies ahead, eh?
(If I say 'Lie back and think of England' again I'll probably get modded, but zoditt)!
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All the best in your new bungalow! Id love a cottage with some land...alas, Im stuck to a one bed flat that I share with the OH and two furbabies
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Best of luck with the move.
One thing to watch out for - Solicitors delaying things. I know quite people whom have made house purchases recently with fairly straight forward deals. Even then it has taken them many, many months to get the keys in their hands. I bought a house in 2017 even though I was paying cash, the house was empty and no issues it still took over 4 months to complete.
Hope it goes well
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Zoddit is exactly the word we used when we made our decision. We just want to spend time to enjoy ourselves and really relax instead of 000000000000000000000000000...
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What the ****? Believe it or not that was my tortie cat Daphne treading on my keyboard. She is even more savvy than I ever realised so when we move I'll get a little keyboard piano and tape the sounds she makes. Next year I could be either a millionaire or
answers on a postcat please! :lol:
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We have just moved after 42 years in our house, downsized house but much bigger garden lots of tears but so far no regrets. Couple with 2 kids and a dog bought our house so it will be filled with life again. We moved out of the area so everything is new.