When are my toms ready?

The majority of toms are red when they're ripe, unless you chose other colours eg yellow, orange, green, 'black', white, pink or striped. Plant type also determines maturity times; naturally a cherry tom will ripen sooner than a maincrop tom. The amount of light the plants get also determines ripening time; you don't mention this point so we can't guess. Overall, it's unlikely you'll see a ripe tom before July regardless of size.
It almost sounds like you're overfeeding your plants as well. Once a week feedings is a lot and toms are notorious for putting on lots of green growth rather than flowers and fruit if overfed.

people dont usually feed tomatoes untill they see the 1st pea sized tomatoes showing , then deed every 7-10 days