i just want to thank everyone for their support.
i've lived here 6years now and he has made my life difficult for most of them. his mother's excuse was that he was young and lonely and as i was young he would 'naturally' want to be friends.
i wouldn't have minded that but it was his attitude, sexual innuendos and leering that put me off. another elderly neighbour gave him a right telling off about 6months after i'd moved in and told him to stop bothering me.
it was so bad that i would come home and sit in the dark with a camping lamp on just so he couldn't tell i was home. i took the batteries out of the door bell and started to wake on
the hour, every hour, every night to make sure the doors were locked.
i can't knock the area. i live opposite a huge park and have allotments backing onto the garden. i have 5 cockerels and the neighbours are very tolerant. he's just the blemish on an otherwise perfect apple
thanks again for all your support. now i need to find a trelis or 6-7 lap boards to fill the gap and hopefully we're sorted.